
<p>I have been thinking a lot about how we will act after all of this is over. So many people are so hopeful this will be over soon and go back to normal. But I fear what normal will be after this. </p>



<p>I have noticed this in simple things. While reading a book, while watching tv&#8230;I see (or read about) people gathering and I get a sudden panicked flutter &#8220;You shouldn&#8217;t be doing that! You are supposed to be 6 feet apart! That is dangerous! You&#8217;re going to get sick!&#8221; And I don&#8217;t foresee this bit of PTSD going away very quickly. </p>



<p>Yes, for some people, I think they will just immediately go back to normal as soon as they are told it is ok. I will definitely be much more hesitant. I will still want groceries delivered and I think it will be a while before just randomly wandering around stores. The idea of hanging out at the Mall of America freaks me out. So many people!!! I don&#8217;t think this will help my dislike of large crowds. </p>



<p>If they say our kids can go to school (which I don&#8217;t think they will), I don&#8217;t know that I would send them back. It&#8217;s just too risky. Just because kids have lesser symptoms, doesn&#8217;t mean they can&#8217;t get it and pass it on to others (parents, grandparents, siblings, etc.) and many of those are immunocompromised.</p>



<p>I am so glad to see that so many businesses are doing what they can to adjust. Online shopping, curbside pickup, delivery services, helping people work from home&#8230;.It&#8217;s such a nice thing to see. And so many of these companies will now have better policies implemented in case this happens again. This is also a good time to see which companies are doing a good job and which companies maybe aren&#8217;t doing such a great job. </p>



<p>I don&#8217;t think this will be the last pandemic we will see. I believe that everyone will be better prepared if it does happen again, though. We will have a better idea of how to live and work virtually and how to function with minimal contact. I think this will ultimately change us. Hopefully for the better (help us to appreciate everything we have when we were so limited to what we could do). I hope we appreciate time with our family and friends more and I hope the lasting repercussions of this are not too harmful. </p>



<p>I hope you and your family are staying safe and healthy. Continue to do the best you can, because we aren&#8217;t alone. We are all going through this in our own ways and there&#8217;s no right way to do so. Hang in there!</p>



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